This
was
my
first
Mother's
Day
as
a
mother,
and
I
was
oh-so-emotional
when
I
looked
at
my
three
little
ones.
I
was
already
thinking
when
they
will
grow
up
and
wish
me
on
this
day.
Only
when
one
becomes
a
mother
does
one
appreciate
one's
own
mother,
who
I
sheepishly
realized
we
tend
to
take
for
granted.
Otherwise
I
am
having
so
much
fun
with
my
babies,
Czar,
Diva
and
Anya.
Films
and
fame
seem
so
insignificant,
and
going
to
the
studios
is
the
last
thing
on
my
mind
today.
Being
with
my
kids
is
such
a
wonderful
feeling
that
I
just
cannot
describe
it
in
words.
I
have
decided
not
to
work
for
a
year
and
spend
all
the
time
with
my
babies
as
the
first
year
is
the
time
when
mother
and
child
bond.
This
also
includes
no
parties
and
no
socializing!
Why,
I
have
not
even
attended
any
of
the
IPL
matches,
because
I
cannot
think
of
spending
so
many
hours
away
from
them.
As
for
Jo
Jeeta
Wahi
Superstar
I
agreed
to
do
the
show
because
I
shoot
for
it
only
one
day
in
a
month.
I
am
enjoying
my
babies
a
lot
more
because
I
have
so
much
help
who
can
do
the
manual
work.
I
seriously
think
mothers
should
not
feel
guilty
about
not
doing
stuff
like
cleaning
babies
and
changing
nappies.
Which
child
remembers
who
changes
their
diapers?
At
least
I
don't.
I
only
remember
the
quality
time
I
spent
with
my
mom.
Remember
there
is
no
such
thing
as
a
perfect
mother,
just
give
your
kids
all
the
love
and
warmth
you
can.
Everyone
tells
me
that
the
mothers
I
have
portrayed
in
my
two
films
Main
Hoon
Na
and
Om
Shanti
Om
were
archetypal
and
over-dramatic.
But
now
that
I
am
a
mother
myself,
I
think
that
Kirron
Kher's
character
(excluding
the
drama
bit)
in
OSO
is
very
real.
Like
her
I
am
trying
to
feed
my
kids
the
whole
day!
And
I
have
seen
Kirron
doing
he
same
thing
off-screen
too.
She
is
always
after
Sikandar
enquiring
about
his
meals!
The
relationship
she
shared
with
her
son
on-screen
was
very
informal
and
lovely
and
the
right
blend
of
being
mother
and
friend,
and
I
hope
to
have
the
same
with
my
kids!
I
think
all
Indian
men
are
mamma's
boys.
I
can
already
see
it
in
my
son
Czar.
He
clings
the
maximum
to
me...
and
I
love
it!
Diva,
like
her
name,
throws
the
maximum
tantrums!
I
love
to
hug
and
cuddle
them
all,
as
it
is
an
important
way
of
bonding
with
our
children,
so
please
do
not
hesitate
to
get
physically
close
to
yours
children.
Shirish
and
I
even
plan
to
take
them
along
on
the
sets
once
I
start
working
and
spend
as
much
time
as
we
can
together
Story first published: Wednesday, June 4, 2008, 12:36 [IST]