Incidentally Shiney was a guest on her chat show Only Pooja, and he also appeared as a judge on Nach Baliye in which she participated. "He didn't come across as a flirtatious but a very serious man." She adds, "I was happy to move on after I dumped Aditya when my maid had made similar allegations but there are some women who will accept it as a mistake, reconcile and forget about it." For Pooja infidelity is a deal breaker. "I can't stomach infidelity. There's nothing as terrible as a violation of one's marital or personal space. I would want 100 per cent loyalty from my man."
Pooja recalls that when her maid told her about Aditya, there was disbelief. "I went through a gamut of emotions shock, horror, and doubt. In technical terms it wasn't rape but consensual sex, but it was termed rape as she was a minor. She had run away from home to become an actress and Aditya convinced her that he would help her."
Bedi admits that she had a tough time believing her maid initially. "I wanted to believe that my guy wouldn't sleep with another woman while he was with me. When I confronted him, at first he denied it, but later admitted. You just accept it, learn to deal with it, move on. Today I don't want to be reminded of that horrible incident. It was horribly humiliating