London (ANI): Singer/Actress Jennifer Lopez admits that she is
also to blame for the fact that her pervious relationships didn"t
work out. The singer, now happily wedded to singer Marc Antony, has
been married to male model Ojani Noa and dancer Chris Judd, and has
had high profile relationships that didn"t last with P. Diddy and
Ben Affleck. She revealed that though it has been difficult, she
can now admit that she was partly responsible for the breakdown on
"I learnt to take a look at myself and not to point the finger,
like, 'Well, this person did this to me.' But say, 'What did I do?'
The hardest thing in life is to really look at yourself in the
mirror and ask, 'What's not so good about me, what can I fix?' It's
so much easier to play the victim, I think," the Daily Snack quoted
her, as saying. And, her new attitude is also helping her marriage
to singer Marc Antony.
"Your responsibility for what you do in a relationship is the
most important thing and not always going, 'He could do this better
and he could do that better.' Well, what can I do better, you know?
I could have taken the time to really ask what was wrong," she