"Ryder came to the set when I was doing my number and I remember him feeling (shocked)," Contactmusic quoted her as saying. “He actually grabbed my face at one point when I took him up onstage when I was wearing all the (clothes) - to him, it must have looked like, ''What is my mother doing? This is so embarrassing.'' He looked at my face and went, ''Mum, everybody's staring at you.'' Well, honey, that's the way it goes - I'm wearing a sparkly nothing!" she added.