"He fancies me more when I''m vulnerable or feeling a bit sorry for myself. He gets me. I might come across as confident when I''m on stage but that''s my mask," she added. The Girls Aloud beauty also confesses that even though she and Crane have been seeing each other for three years they still have long arguments. Harding said: "If we argue, we''ll both try to get the last word. It''s like, ''Grow up.'' ''No, you grow up''.