First
Love
In
a
Filmfare
interview,
her
sister
Madhur
recalled,
"Apa
first
fell
in
love
with
Premnath.
The
relationship
lasted
six
months.
It
broke
on
grounds
of
religion.
He
asked
her
to
convert
and
she
refused."
Her
Love
Story
With
Dilip
Kumar
"She
met
Bhaijan
(Dilip
Kumar)
on
the
sets
of
Tarana.
They
later
worked
in
Sangdil,
Amar
and
Mughal-e-Azam.
It
was
a
nine
year
long
affair.
They
even
got
engaged."
Shammi
Kapoor
was
quoted
as
saying
in
an
interview,
"Dilip
Kumar
would
drive
down
from
Bombay
to
meet
Madhubala...
he
even
flew
to
Bombay
to
spend
Eid
with
her,
taking
time
off
from
his
shooting
stint."
Star-Crossed
"The
breakup
with
Dilip
Kumar
happened
due
to
the
court
case
during
Naya
Daur
in
the
mid
'50s.
The
unit
was
to
shoot
somewhere
in
Gwalior.
During
the
shooting
of
another
film
Jabeen
Jaleel,
at
the
same
location,
a
mob
had
attacked
the
women
and
even
torn
their
clothes
off.
My
father
was
wary
and
just
asked
that
the
locale
be
changed.
It's
not
that
he
didn't
let
her
go
outdoors.
Apa
had
shot
in
Mahableshwar,
Hyderabad
and
other
places
before.
Bhaijan
(Dilip
Kumar)
called
my
father
'a
dictator' in
court
and
sided
with
the
Chopras
(late
BR
Chopra
was
the
director).
Darare
padh
gayee,
rishtey
toot
gaye
(relationships
were
broken).''We
love
and
respect
Bhaijan
but
I
have
just
one
question,
'Aapki
mohabbat
yahan
thi,
aapki
chahat
yahan
thi,
phir
aapne
aisa
kyun
kiya
(why
didn't
you
side
with
your
love)?'
Bhaijan
could've
simply
said
let's
change
the
location.
Or
remained
neutral.
Apa
used
to
cry
a
lot
those
days.
They
had
conversations
on
the
phone
trying
to
patch
up.
He
kept
saying,
'Leave
your
father
and
I'll
marry
you'.
She'd
say,
'I'll
marry
you
but
just
come
home,
say
sorry
and
hug
him'.
It
was
zid
(ego)
which
destroyed
their
love,"
said
Madhubala's
sister.
Madhubala
Got
Involved
With
Kishore
Kumar
On
A
Rebound
Madhur
recalled,
"What
attracted
her
to
Kishore?
Maybe
it
was
his
singing
or
maybe
his
ability
to
make
her
laugh.
Their
love
affair
went
on
for
three
years
through
Chalti
Ka
Naam
Gadi
and
Half
Ticket.
They
got
married
in
1960,
when
she
was
27.
After
marriage
they
flew
to
London
where
the
doctor
told
her
she
had
only
two
years
to
live.
After
that
Kishore
left
her
at
our
house
saying,
'I
can't
look
after
her.
I'm
on
outdoors
often'.
But
she
wanted
to
be
with
him.
He'd
visit
her
once
in
two
months
though.
Maybe
he
wanted
to
detach
himself
from
her
so
that
the
final
separation
wouldn't
hurt.
But
he
never
abused
her
as
was
reported.
He
bore
her
medical
expenses.
They
remained
married
for
nine
years."
Madhubala
Was
Diagnosed
With
Ventricular
Septal
Defect
"While
shooting
for
Mughal-e-Azam
she
was
tied
with
chains
and
had
to
walk
around
with
them.
That
was
stressful.
By
the
end
of
the
day
her
hands
would
turn
blue.
She'd
even
refuse
food
saying
that
she
had
to
look
anguished
and
weary
for
the
jail
scenes.
The
'feather
scene' between
her
and
Bhaijan
(considered
the
most
romantic
in
Hindi
cinema)
was
shot
after
the
breakup."
The
Indian
Cinema
Lost
A
Shining
Star
"Due
to
her
ailment,
her
body
would
produce
extra
blood.
So
it
would
spill
out
from
the
nose
and
mouth.
The
doctor
would
come
home
and
extract
bottles
of
blood.
She
also
suffered
from
pulmonary
pressure
of
the
lungs.
She
coughed
all
the
time.
Every
four
to
five
hours
she
had
to
be
given
oxygen
or
else
would
get
breathless.
She
was
confined
to
bed
for
nine
years
and
was
reduced
to
just
bones
and
skin.
She'd
keep
crying,
'Mujhe
zinda
rehna
hai,
mujhe
marna
nahin
hai,
doctor
kab
ilaaj
nikalenge.
Finally
she
left
for
heavenly
abode
on February
23,
1969
at
the
age
of
30.