Confessions
Of
A
First-Time
Mommy
Recalling
the
time
when
Kajol
was
pregnant
with
Nysa,
the
actress
recently
told
Hindustan
Times,
"When
I
became
a
mum,
my
first
thought
was
that
I
just
could
not
fail.
I
knew
that
this
was
one
test
I
was
going
to
ace
and
one
exam
I
was
going
to
top
because
this
really
was
a
question
of
life
and
a
wasted
life." Kajol
confessed
that
she
soon
realized
that
motherhood
is
no
cakewalk
and
added,
"It
took
me
at
least
six
months
to
realise
that
I
couldn't
do
it
alone
and
I
would
need
everyone
with
me
to
help
bring
up
my
kids."
Motherhood
Is
Also
About
Being
Friends
With
Your
Kids
In
a
DNA
interview,
the
actress
had
opened
up
about
her
relationship
with
Nysa
and
said,
"We
definitely
share
shoes,
manicures
and
pedicures.
We
have
that
kind
of
a
relationship
where
we
are
able
to
talk
to
each
other
about
a
lot
of
things.
But
not
everything
because
at
the
end
of
the
day,
I'm
her
mother.
I
still
scold
her
and
she
will
be
like,
‘But
whyyyy
mom!'.
So,
overall,
we
are
in
a
good
space."
Parenting
Is
Like
Internship
With
A
Child,
Says
Kajol
"It's
a
very
much
a
hands-on
job.
You
have
to
do
an
internship
with
a
child.
You
have
to
know
that
you
will
make
mistakes
and
that
others
will
make
mistakes.
You'll
have
to
forgive
them
and
yourself.
It
is
one
of
the
most
rewarding
jobs.
To
see
your
children
growing
up
to
become
good
human
beings," Kajol
had
told
PTI.
Kajol
Is
A
Mix
Of
An
Overprotective
And
A
Cool
Mom
"Somewhere
down
the
line,
we
underestimate
our
kids.
As
they
are
born
in
this
world
so
they
know
this
world
much
better
than
us
in
a
lot
of
ways.
Today,
our
main
duty
is
to
disseminate
the
information
in
the
right
way.
Our
kids
should
be
able
to
come
up
and
ask
us
all
kinds
of
questions,"
a
Mid-day
report
had
quoted
her
as
saying.
It's
All
About
Expressing
Love
"My
son
hugs
me
every
night
and
sleeps,
and
my
daughter
keeps
an
eye
on
me
and
gives
me
the
space
that
I
need
at
times,"
Kajol
had
revealed
in
one
of
her
interviews.
We
Totally
Agree
With
Kajol
On
This!
"When
you
have
a
child,
you
realize
how
much
you
love
your
child
and
what
a
mother's
love
actually
means.
You
never
understand
it
till
then.
Then
you
see
the
kind
of
effort,
attention
and
time
she
spared
and
put
into
us.
In
retrospect,
I
remember
it
so
clearly.As
a
single
mother,
it
was
tough
for
her.
Now
that
I
think
about
it,
every
holiday
there
was
no
male
figure
or
maid
around
to
help
her
out.
My
mom
took
us
everywhere.
Not
that
my
dad
(the
late
Shomu
Mukerji)
didn't
or
we
didn't
have
holidays
with
both
my
parents
around.
But
most
of
the
time,
it
was
just
her.
We
were
seven
children
including
my
cousins
and
we
would
usually
land
up
going
to
Lonavala.
Now
when
I
think
about
handling
four
kids,
I
feel
like
taking
a
tranquilizer.
She
used
to
put
us
in
the
car
and
drive
up
and
down
for
the
weekend.
It
was
amazing!
She's
a
wonder
woman!,"
Kajol
had
revealed
in
a
Filmfare
interview.
Kajol's
Special
Message
For
Mother's
Day
"The
most
important
thing
that
your
children
will
remember
forever
is
how
you
loved
them.
All
the
scolding,
the
feeding
and
the
care
will
be
forgotten.
So,
don't
forget
to
make
them
feel
loved
every
single
day,"
said
the
actress
in
an
interview
with
Hindustan
Times.