After
going
around
for
over
a
year,
Koena
Mitra
and
her
Turkish
boyfriend,
Mett
Merral
have
finally
split
up.
Earlier
this
year
-
on
her
birthday
(January
6)
-
Koena
told
us,
"Though
we
love
each
other
we
have
to
give
more
time
to
know
each
other
for
it
to
be
more
permanent.
Today,
I
know
I
am
sure
I
want
to
be
with
Mett
so
there's
nothing
to
hide...
I
will
never
hide
my
man...
I
don't
know
about
my
future
but
the
present
is
very
beautiful..."
Don't
wanna
talk...
Says
Koena's
friend,
"Koena
and
Mett
broke
up
this
year
(in
February)
but
Koena
has
been
keeping
a
low
profile
about
her
break-up;
she
didn't
want
to
talk
about
it.
But
a
few
of
our
close
friends
have
been
talking
about
it
and
she
is
upset
about
it."
The
source
says
that
though
the
basic
problem
between
the
couple
was
distance
(Mett
stays
in
Turkey),
insecurity
and
jealousy
destroyed
the
relationship.
"Mett's
biggest
complaint
was
that
Koena
couldn't
travel
to
Turkey
as
much
as
he
wanted
her
to,
while
he
would
travel
to
India
a
lot.
What
he
failed
to
understand
was
that
he
was
a
pilot
and
was
able
to
travel
wherever
he
wanted
while
she
was
busy
with
her
work
commitments."
Koena's
friend
adds
that
the
two
had
different
expectations.
"Mett
is
a
very
possessive
guy.
His
biggest
problem
was
the
male
attention
that
the
actress
would
get
from
guys
everywhere
-
on
social
networking
websites
to
restaurants
and
shopping
malls.
He
would
misbehave
or
pick
fights
in
public
places
such
as
these
without
thinking
of
the
consequences.
If
Koena
and
he
were
having
dinner
at
a
restaurant
and
he
felt
a
guy
was
giving
her
unnecessary
attention
he
would
fight,
push
his
chair
back
and
stomp
off
without
thinking
of
the
awkward
situation
he
had
placed
the
actress
in
with
people
staring
at
her."
Though
Mett
came
down
in
January
to
celebrate
Koena's
birthday
in
Mumbai,
the
cracks
in
the
couple's
relationship
had
started
much
before.
"Her
friends
had
tried
explaining
to
Mett
that
meeting
men
was
part
of
her
lifestyle
and
work,
but
he
never
liked
it.
He
is
a
very
nice
guy
-
sensitive,
emotional
and
caring
-
but
he
was
too
insecure
and
jealous
for
Koena
and
ultimately,
she
decided
to
call
it
quits."
The
couple
was
constantly
fighting
and
the
Dil
Mein
Baji
Guitar
girl
felt
that
they
were
not
growing
together
as
a
couple.
"Mett
started
resenting
the
constant
invasion
of
privacy
that
he
and
the
actress
was
subjected
to
whenever
they
went
out.
He
didn't
like
it
that
her
personal
life
was
known
to
all.
They
were
poles
apart.
As
a
person,
Koena
is
calm
and
patient
while
Mett
was
restless.
She
told
him
they
should
split
amicably
and
remain
friends
and
be
cordial
to
each
other.
Initially,
Mett
thought
it
to
be
a
lovers
spat
but
then
realised
Koena
truly
wanted
it.
He
was
a
bit
reluctant
but
finally
accepted
it.
He
understood
that
they
were
struggling
too
much
as
a
couple."
Koyna
remained
unavailable
for
comment
but
her
publicist
says,
"Yes
Koena
and
Mett
have
broken
up.
She
is
single
today."
Story first published: Wednesday, April 7, 2010, 11:35 [IST]