Vidya
Balan
is
one
actress
who
never
followed
the
norms
and
always
did
what
she
felt
was
right!
But
even
a
bold
and
confident
actor
like
her
faced
a
lot
of
sexism
in
Bollywood.
In
a
candid
chat
with
a
leading
daily,
Vidya
Balan
revealed
some
shocking
truths
about
the
industry
where
she
was
given
a
totally
different
treatment
just
because
she
is
a
woman.
Read
her
explosive
statements
below.
When
She
Was
Paid
Less
Than
The
Actor
Even
When
He
Had
A
Smaller
Role
‘'There
was
a
film,
and
I
won't
name
the
actor,
out
of
respect
for
him,
but
there
was
a
film
in
which
I
was
playing
the
bigger
role,
and
he
was
getting
paid
more.
And
that
bothered
me.
Because
I
am
playing
the
bigger
role!
I
am
putting
in
more
effort!
I
am
not
asking
you
to
pay
me
for
nothing,
but
you
can't
pay
him
double
of
what
you
are
paying
me.
These
things
-
like
waiting
for
an
actor
endlessly,
while
I
am
ready
on
the
set
-
bothered
me.
‘'
Khoon
Khaulta
Tha
Mera
''I
do
think
there
is
an
inherent
sexism
when
you
say
you
are
the
hero
of
the
film,
but
I
also
know
where
it
is
coming
from.
Considering
that
all
this
while,
heroes
have
been
the
centre
of
every
film
for
decades.
So
I
let
that
be.
But
I
began
to
feel
a
sense
of
vindication,
because
there
was
anger
in
me.
When
I
was
told
multiple
times
for
several
films
that
the
hero
has
given
the
dates
so
you
have
to
adjust,
we
won't
get
his
dates
later.
Khoon
khaulta
tha
mera.
I
might
be
committed
to
some
other
film,
but
I
would
have
to
change
things
around.''
Why
Male
Actors
Are
Not
Asked
About
Their
Marriage
"In
interviews
I
get
asked
about
my
marriage
and
when
I
am
having
a
child,
time
and
again.
There
are
other
actors,
male
actors,
who
have
gotten
married.
Obviously
they
are
not
asked,
'when
are
you
impregnating
your
wife?' They
are
not
even
asked,
'how
is
your
married
life
going?'
For
me
to
be
asked
that
all
the
time
-
it
is
excessive.
Because
I
do
have
an
identity
outside
being
a
married
woman.
‘'
People
Are
Taken
Aback
When
I
Say
I
Am
The
Most
Important
Person
In
My
Life
''Today,
I
very
proudly
tell
people,
that
I
am
the
most
important
person
in
my
life.
And
sometimes
people
are
taken
aback,
because
as
a
married
woman,
I
should
be
saying
that
Siddharth
is
the
most
important
person
in
my
life.
I
love
Siddharth,
but
I
am
still
the
most
important
person
in
my
life.
If
you
think
I
am
being
selfish,
self-centred,
self-consumed,
self-absorbed,
self-indulgent
-
I
don't
care!
This
is
what
it
is.
It
is
high
time!''
In
the
same
interview,
Vidya
Balan
also
revealed
an
interesting
incident
which
made
her
very
happy,
''I'll
never
forget
this
gentleman
who
called
me
on
the
day
Ishqiya
released
and
said,
'aapne
film
hero
jaise
promote
ki
aur
aap
film
ki
hero
hain'.
And
I
was
thrilled
at
the
compliment,
because
I
worked
really
hard
to
promote
the
film.''
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Padukone's
Breakup
Rumours
''Naseer
saab
was
not
promoting
the
film
and
Arshad
was
not
there
for
all
the
promotions.
But
I
went
everywhere
in
that
synthetic
sari,
promoting
the
film.
But
I
was
happy
that
I
was
doing
all
I
could
to
get
as
many
people
as
possible
into
the
theatres,'' she
said.
Vidya
Balan
added,
''And
then,
much
later,
after
several
films,
when
The
Dirty
Picture
released,
I
remember
getting
this
call
from
the
owner
of
this
cinema
in
Bandra
and
he
said,
'madam
aap
toh
hero
hain'.
And
I
was
thinking,
that
not
that
I
set
out
to
do
this,
not
that
I
set
out
to
prove
a
point,
but
I
followed
my
instincts
as
an
actor.''