Kalki
On
What
Went
Wrong
In
Her
Marriage
"Once
I
got
married,
I
was
only
invited
to
the
things
that
Anurag
was
invited
to.
People
would
say,
'Call
Anurag's
wife'.
They
wouldn't
say,
'call
Kalki'
or
'call
Kalki's
husband'.
In
marriage,
a
woman
becomes
the
weaker
sex,
even
if
her
husband
doesn't
want
her
to
be.
This
happens
because
of
the
way
society
has
built
the
institution."
She
Further
Added..
Stating
that
honesty
and
independence
are
a
must
in
a
relationship,
Kalki
also
shared
how
she
went
about
the
process
of
coming
out
of
her
marriage
after
the
divorce.
"...
I
found
myself
alone
after
a
very
long
time.
I
had
to
fill
up
that
empty
space
somehow.
I
didn't
want
to
fill
it
up
by
going
crazy
and
getting
drunk,
or
by
surrounding
myself
with
the
people.
"I
chose
the
introverted
version
of
filling
up
myself
by
spending
more
time
at
home,
with
the
family...
I'm
happy
I
went
through
that
journey,"
she
said.
She
Also
Talked
About
Her
Movie
Career
And
Feminism
"It's
only
that
we
live
in
a
patriarchal
society,
and
therefore,
the
word
feminism
has
to
be
used
as
a
counter
to
patriarchy.
But
feminism
is
about
being
equal.
The
word
used
should
be
'equality',
as
it
is
about
all
humans
being
equal
and
respecting
each
other
for
that,"
she
added.
Kalki
On
Her
Off-beat
Choices
Far
from
the
female
prototype
deeply
set
in
the
Indian
psyche,
the
actor,
widely
known
for
her
unconventional
roles
in
movies
like
"Margarita
with
Straw",
"That
Girl
in
Yellow
Boots"
or
"Waiting",
said
she
never
had
to
pay
a
heavy
price
for
her
off-beat
choices
-
both
in
real
life
as
well
as
in
cinema.
"I
have
retained
my
freedom
and
my
ability
to
pick
and
choose.
Of
course,
people
have
tried
to
stereotype
me...
But
it's
very
short-lived
if
you
realise
that
you're
only
as
new
as
your
newest
film...
You
have
to
look
beyond
the
period
of
initial
reactions
and
recognise
that
there's
a
bigger
body
of
work
and
an
effort
to
do
something
bigger,"
she
added.