'The
Most
Difficult
Thing
Is
To
Question
People
Around
You'
Kareena
Kapoor
and
Swara
Bhaskar
sat
down
to
discuss
patriarchy
and
feminism
on
Kareena's
radio
chat
show,
and
the
discussions
were
insightful
and
meaningful.
When
Kareena
asked
Swara
if
it
is
a
tough
thing
to
call
out
patriarchy
in
one's
own
home,
Swara
said,
"It's
very
tough.
The
most
difficult
thing
is
to
question
yourself
and
people
around
you,
especially
whom
you
love
the
most
including
your
parents,
brother
and
boyfriend."
Patriarchy
Shoulf
Be
Viewed
As
A
Conversation
Between
Sensible
People
"When
it
comes
to
patriarchy
it
should
be
viewed
as
a
conversation
among
sensible
people.
Also,
I
feel
bad
for
boys
sometimes
because
the
problem
lies
with
the
parenting
method
which
doesn't
let
them
equip
with
strong
and
opinionated
women.
They
have
also
silently
absorbed
that
patriarchal
attitude
and
don't
know
how
to
deal
with
this,"
she
added.
Swara's
Own
Life
Is
Affect
By
Patriarchy
Swara's
own
life
is
affected
by
the
patriarchal
set
up
ingrained
in
her
close
ones.
Talking
about
it
she
said,
"I
have
experienced
this
myself
that
my
boyfriend
Himanshu
wouldn't
discuss
his
work
with
me
despite
being
in
the
same
industry
which
I
pointed
out
to
him.
He
told
me
this
is
because
of
that
what
he
has
imbibed
from
his
father
as
he
never
seen
his
father
discussing
the
work
with
his
mother
back
at
home."
But
it
is
one
step
in
the
right
direction
if
a
person
reflects
on
where
the
mind
set
comes
from
and
recognizes
it
and
wants
to
work
towards
a
change.
Does
Bollywood
Have
A
Responsibility?
Swara
and
Kareena
also
discussed
if
films
are
one
some
level
influencing
the
patriarchal
set
up
in
society.
Swara
said,
"Bollywood
is
also
a
part
of
our
society.
When
there
is
no
consciousness
in
the
society,
where
will
Bollywood
get
its
consciousness
from."
Kareena
agreed
with
her
and
said,
"Bollywood
films
are
not
meant
to
be
changing
society."
Well,
there
may
be
some
who
may
disagree
with
that.