Sutapa
Sikdar
Says
Irrfan
Khan
Was
Not
A
Husband
Material
Talking
about
he
was
never
quintessentially
romantic,
Sutapa
told
Times
of
India,
"Irrfan
was
not
husband
material.
Nah,
he
wasn't
(that's
a
view
from
the
definition
we
expect
a
husband
to
be
-
from
the
films,
the
novels
and
the
merchandise
companies).
I
tried
to
sometimes
make
him
ask
for
normal
things
-
like
celebrating
birthdays.
But
it
didn't
work
(so
red
roses,
dark
chocolates,
diamonds,
Valentine's
Day
etc,
were
not
discussed,
leave
aside
being
considered)."
Irrfan
Khan's
Wife
On
Why
She
Couldn't
Find
Fault
With
The
Late
Actor
Sutapa
said
that
she
knew
exactly
how
he
was
when
she
married
him
after
many
years
of
courtship.
She
said
that
she
couldn't
find
fault
with
Irrfan,
as
the
late
actor
did
not
even
remember
his
own
birthday.
Irrfan's
Wife
Says
The
Late
Actor
Made
Her
Special
With
His
Little
Gestures
Sutapa
said
that
she
and
Irrfan
planted
trees
together,
went
to
jungles
together
and
went
to
safaris.
She
recalled
how
they
drove
in
their
first
Maruti
800
to
every
corner
of
Maharashtra,
especially
in
the
rains
and
looking
for
a
land
near
water,
adding
that
they
were
very
alike
in
that
sense.
"But
how
could
I
miss
that
he
sang
in
Bengali
because
he
knew
I
would
love
it
without
saying
it?
He
would
keep
mogras
on
my
study
table
as
I
wrote
for
a
series
tirelessly.
Irrfan
cannot
be
defined
as
a
husband
or
father
or
star
as
per
social
definitions.
He
would
surprise
and
surpass
all
definitions,
but
the
fact
remains
that
he
was
someone
very
special
or
else
why
would
I
remember
him
every
day
even
just
to
fight?"
she
was
quoted
as
saying
by
the
leading
daily.
Irrfan's
Wife
On
What
She
Misses
The
Most
About
The
Late
Actor
Sutapa
was
quoted
as
saying,
"His
sharing
of
wisdom,
his
films
especially
documentaries,
his
looking
at
stars
through
his
telescope,
his
findings
and
his
sharing
of
knowledge
was
his
way
to
express
love.
He
was
a
quiet
man
but
he
spoke
tons
and
tons
to
me
late
at
night.
I
am
a
day
person,
he
was
a
night
person.
So
I
couldn't
stay
awake
every
night.
That's
what
I
crave
the
most
now."
She
further
said
that
she
and
Irrfan
used
to
have
endless
talks
at
nights
on
philosophy,
music,
physics
and
poetry.