Wajid
Khan
And
Kamalrukh
Khan
Were
College
Sweethearts
Who
Got
Married
Under
Special
Marriages
Act
Kamalrukh
began
her
note
by
writing,
"I
am
Parsi
and
he
was
Muslim.
We
were
what
you
would
call
'college
sweethearts.'
Eventually
when
we
did
get
married,
we
married
for
love
under
the
Special
Marriages
Act
(an
act
that
upholds
the
right
to
practice
one's
own
religion
post
marriage).
And
this
is
why
this
current
debate
surrounding
the
anti
conversion
bill
is
so
interesting
for
me.
I
want
to
share
my
ordeal
and
my
experience
in
an
inter
caste
marriage
-
that
in
this
day
and
age,
a
woman
can
face
such
prejudice,
suffering
and
discrimination
in
the
name
of
religion
is
a
complete
shame...and
an
eye
opener."
'An
Educated,
Thinking,
Independent
Woman
With
An
Opinion
Was
Just
Not
Acceptable'
She
continued,
"My
simple
parsi
upbringing
was
very
democratic
in
its
value
system.
Independence
of
thought
was
encouraged
and
healthy
debates
were
the
norm.
Education
on
all
levels
was
encouraged.
However,
post
marriage,
this
same
independence,
education
and
democratic
value
system
was
the
biggest
problem
for
my
husband's
family.
An
educated,
thinking,
independent
woman
with
an
opinion
was
just
not
acceptable.
And
resisting
the
pressures
of
conversion
was
sacrilege.
I
have
always
respected,
participated
and
celebrated
all
faiths."
Kamalrukh
Khan
Says
Her
Relationship
With
Wajid
Got
Affected
Post
Marriage
"But
my
resistance
to
convert
to
Islam
drastically
widened
the
divide
between
me
and
my
husband,
making
it
toxic
enough
to
destroy
our
relationship
as
husband
and
wife,
and
his
ability
to
be
a
present
father
to
our
kids.
My
dignity
and
self
respect
did
not
permit
me
to
bend
backwards
for
him
and
his
family,
by
converting
to
Islam,"
wrote
Kamalrukh.
Kamalrukh
Khan
Claims
Her
In-Laws
Employed
Scare
Tactics
Kamalrukh
further
wrote
that
there
were
'scare
tactics' employed
to
scare
her
into
converting.
It
included
taking
her
to
court
for
divorce
and
her
being
outcast
from
her
husband's
family.
"I
was
devastated,
felt
betrayed
and
was
emotionally
drained,
but
my
children
and
I
held
on,"
she
wrote
in
her
post.
Late
Wajid
Khan's
Wife
Alleges
Her
In-Laws
Continue
To
Harrass
Her
Post
His
Demise
Kamalrukh
wrote,
"Wajid
was
a
super
talented
musician
and
composer
who
devoted
his
life
to
making
melodies.
My
children
and
I
miss
him
dearly
and
we
wish
he
had
dedicated
more
time
to
us
as
a
family,
devoid
of
religious
prejudices,
the
way
he
did
while
creating
his
melodies.
We
never
got
to
be
a
family
due
to
his
and
his
family's
religious
fanaticism.
Today
post
his
untimely
death,
the
harassment
from
his
family
continues.
I
stand
fighting
for
the
rights
and
inheritance
of
my
children
which
have
been
usurped
by
them.
All
this
because
of
their
hatred
against
me
for
not
converting
to
Islam.
Such
deep
rooted
hatred
that
even
death
of
a
loved
one
could
not
move."
"Religion
should
be
a
cause
for
celebration
of
differences
not
separation
of
families.
All
religions
are
the
path
to
the
divine.
Live
and
let
live
should
be
the
only
religion
we
all
practice," she
concluded
her
note.