JLo blames self for failure

Thursday, September 13, 2007

London (ANI): Singer/Actress Jennifer Lopez admits that she is also to blame for the fact that her pervious relationships didn"t work out. The singer, now happily wedded to singer Marc Antony, has been married to male model Ojani Noa and dancer Chris Judd, and has had high profile relationships that didn"t last with P. Diddy and Ben Affleck. She revealed that though it has been difficult, she can now admit that she was partly responsible for the breakdown on her relationships.

"I learnt to take a look at myself and not to point the finger, like, 'Well, this person did this to me.' But say, 'What did I do?' The hardest thing in life is to really look at yourself in the mirror and ask, 'What's not so good about me, what can I fix?' It's so much easier to play the victim, I think," the Daily Snack quoted her, as saying. And, her new attitude is also helping her marriage to singer Marc Antony.

"Your responsibility for what you do in a relationship is the most important thing and not always going, 'He could do this better and he could do that better.' Well, what can I do better, you know? I could have taken the time to really ask what was wrong," she said.