Gautami On Break Up With Kamal Haasan: In Love, Commitment Is Equal Efforts; Stooping So Low...; Full Story In

Gautami Reacts To Break Up With Kamal Haasan: Kamal Haasan is a legendary actor who is also infamous for his affairs with actresses, failed marriages, and lip-locks in his films. The veteran is now with nobody currently but lived together with Gautami for 13 years until their mutual separation in 2016.

They have never married and stayed together in a live-in relationship, after reuniting after decades. They were together for about 13 years and Gautami was taken care of by Kamal Haasan with utmost care and concern during her fight with cancer. However, after 13 years of living together, the duo parted ways in 2016 due to reasons better known to them.

Gautami Regrets Living Together With Kamal Haasan

Gautami has been taking up meaningful projects in films and is one of the few celebrities who raises her voice for causes. In a recent interview with the most popular Tamil entertainment channel SS Music, Gautami, who never shared what caused the rift between her and Kamal Haasan, reportedly opened up about their relationship.

She was quoted saying, "In reality, your strength is no one else's. You are your strength. When you are really sad, you will watch videos of your favorite person or someone who can motivate you. It varies from person to person. Different things inspire everyone. They will move towards that point.

But actually, it is not your forte. You are your strength. If you're in a relationship and it doesn't work out, you don't have to take full responsibility for it. Be it father, mother, daughter, husband lover, any kind of relationship, there is bound to be a focal point between the two in that relationship.

Both of them come to that central point where you do half the work and I do half the work. But for some people, the gap between that focal point and him is too great for one reason or another. The mistake that can happen here is that the person on the other side will say alas... have you come that far, and them, they will come to their side, a little further from the center point.

In doing so, we accustom them to it. At that time, the person on that side will be happy saying that he has come so far for us and is so sorry for us. But the one who cheated will cheat the second time. The third time he will think the same. Over time it becomes a habit for them.

That being the case, that other person, why should I come so far for you; They will ask you to come a little further here for me and put the whole work on us. This is the biggest lesson I have learned in my life. Therefore, whatever kind of relationship it may be, you should never cross that focal point.

Love and commitment between both should be equal. Only then will the relationship last for a long time. By the time you get past 50 percent, you'll get into the habit of doing the same. The opposite party will also get used to it. It is not good," asserted Gautami.