Well Done Abba is the best days of my life: Boman Irani
They say that when actors reach their forties, they've either turned themselves into superstars or are thrown out of the business. But what would you call an actor who has got into the business of acting in his forties? What would you call an actor who has redefined the word superstar in his own right? And what would you call an actor who has won, not only critical acclaim and awards in his mid forties and fifties now, but has also won the respect, recognition and a rare grandiosity from his fellow co-stars? There's more! A rarity which makes this big man Boman come to tears when Dia Mirza once asked Irani to give her away to her future husband. We call it 'bidai'. A true father in every sense, Boman Irani is known amongst his female co-stars as 'Pops' or 'Abba'. The first time I met him in London, the actor came across as so effortlessly charming that you almost expect him to be carrying a briefcase full of vacuum cleaner parts to assemble and demonstrate. For me, he had perfected the salesman's patter, the direct eye contact, the firm but respectful handshake but yet an aristocrat who was sitting right next to me speaking effortless English like the Duke of Kent. UK's Harrow Observer columnist and Bollywood Hungama's London correspondent talks to the father figure, the God Father and the respectful Boman Irani over the phone to know more about his love for cinema, love for his fellow co-stars, love for Shyam Benegal and Minissha Lamba and love for one of his most challenging roles in Well Done Abba. Didn't we say it's difficult to dislike a man like Boman Irani?
Am
I
talking
to
a
god
father?
Am
I
talking
to
a
'paa'
which
actresses
can't
get
away
with
or
am
I
talking
to
a
man
who
is
simple
loved
by
the
entire
film
fraternity
for
no
rhyme
or
reason?
No,
no.
What
are
you
saying
man?
Dia
Mirza
is
giving
me
a
bad
name
(laughs).
Seriously,
I'm
touched.
Minissha
calls
me
'Abba'
and
after
this
Dance
India
Dance
show,
everybody
on
Facebook
and
Twitter
has
started
calling
me
'Abba'
too.
There
is
a
lot
of
affection
that
is
added
to
why
these
people
call
me
'Abba'
or
'Pops'
or
more.
This
love
keeps
me
going.
What
about
the
emotional
factor
Boman?
We
hear
that
Dia
Mirza
wanted
you
to
do
her
'Bidai'
ceremony
when
she
gets
married
in
the
near
future?
Yes,
it
is
an
emotional
journey.
It's
not
a
small
thing.
I
am
giving
away
the
girl
for
the
wedding,
a
father
who
is
giving
away
his
daughter
for
the
wedding.
Its
immense
responsibility
and
respect
involved
in
doing
so
and
I
accept
it
with
great
humility
and
am
almost
moved
by
it.
Let
me
be
really
honest
here.
It's
very
moving
and
touching
of
Dia
to
address
such
a
responsibility.
Critics
who've
seen
Shyam
Benegal's
Welcome
to
Sajjanpur
say
that
Well
Done
Abba
has
turned
out
even
better
than
his
previous
work.
Yes,
I
think
so
too.
Welcome
to
Sajjanpur
was
a
lovely
film
too.
But
Shyam
Benegal
has
taken
this
one
to
an
all
time
high.
You
need
to
see
it
to
believe
it.
We
also
hear
that
Well
Done
Abba
isn't
getting
a
theatrical
release
in
the
UK
in
spite
of
the
film
getting
a
standing
ovation
at
last
year's
London
Film
Festival.
It
will
happen
in
a
week
or
two
after
it
has
released
in
India.
Not
as
yet.
It
clearly
indicated
that
either
the
overseas
audiences
do
not
want
to
watch
Boman
Irani
and
Minissha
Lamba
or
a
film
like
Well
Done
Abba...
I
do
not
agree
with
your
statement.
At
the
moment,
we
are
concentrating
on
the
theatrical
release
in
India
first
because
films
like
Well
Done
Abba
need
to
be
monitored
well.
I
disagree
with
you
that
there
isn't
an
audience
for
a
cinema
like
this.
Yes,
there
is.
It
isn't
a
trial
and
error
strategy.
Well
Done
Abba
is
a
small
film
and
I
do
believe
that
there
will
be
a
great
response
to
it.
People
all
over
the
world
are
craving
for
a
good
cinema
to
hit
the
theatres
which
is
entertaining
too.
Well
Done
Abba
falls
in
that
domain.
You've
mentioned
the
word
'challenging'
a
lot
of
times
when
you've
been
speaking
about
Well
Done
Abba.
Please
elaborate.
Well
Done
Abba
is
one
of
the
most
challenging
films
I've
done
since
a
while.
Yes,
it
is
because
it's
a
Shyam
Benegal
film
and
audiences
have
never
seen
me
in
a
portrayal
like
this
before.
You
have
to
be
on
the
top
of
your
game
to
be
ready
to
do
a
Shyam
Benegal
film.
More
so
because
it's
a
lead
role.
Secondly,
it's
a
challenge
because
the
role
I
portray
of
Armaan
Ali
is
a
very
simple
character.
He
is
a
driver
and
how
to
make
the
driver
exciting
enough
was
the
tough
task.
Challenge
is
to
make
the
driver
more
watchable.
The
situation
that
I
was
put
into
was
challenging
as
Armaan
Ali
came
out
to
be
a
larger
than
life
person
even
though
he
was
a
driver.
There
isn't
any
heroic
deed
which
I
do
but
the
fact
that
my
role
is
an
every
man's
role
makes
it
interesting.
When
Indian
cinema
is
venturing
out
into
different
cinema
these
days
with
films
like
Ishqiya,
Paa,
LSD,
Road
Movie,
Dev
D,
etc,
do
you
think
there
is
a
high
scope
of
such
films
taking
over
our
so
called
commercial
pot
boilers?
Yes,
I
do
so.
You're
right.
I
completely
agree
with
you.
On
the
flip
side,
if
we
say
that
such
kind
of
films
you
just
mentioned
doesn't
have
any
audience
or
commercial
value,
how
can
we
explain
the
success
of
Khosla
Ka
Ghosla,
Bheja
Fry,
A
Wednesday,
Page
3,
etc.
In
fact,
Welcome
to
Sajjanpur
turned
out
to
be
UTV's
most
successful
film
last
year.
If
there
is
no
audience
for
a
cinema
like
these,
I'd
like
to
believe
that
there
isn't
an
audience
for
any
kind
of
cinema.
Munnabhai
MBBS
was
a
loser
of
a
film
when
it
opened.
It
turned
out
to
be
a
cult
film.
Khosla
Ka
Ghosla
was
in
the
cans
for
three
years
after
it
was
made.
After
its
release,
it
turned
out
to
be
one
of
the
most
critically
acclaimed
films.
Well
Done
Abba
promises
to
deliver
intelligence,
entertainment
and
diverse
cinema.
Let's
talk
about
the
humorous
side
of
Shyam
Benegal
When
I
started
working
with
him,
I
didn't
know
about
it
myself.
It
is
such
a
revelation
to
see
a
man
like
Shyam
Benegal
so
full
of
ideas,
has
so
much
to
say,
he
is
always
talking
on
the
mike,
and
has
a
fun
side
to
him
after
the
pack
up.
When
you
meet
him
in
social
gatherings,
he
is
simple
and
quiet.
But
at
work,
he
is
like
an
animal
that
is
raring
to
go.
He
belongs
on
the
sets
and
is
hell
bent
on
making
cinema
that
I
and
you
will
enjoy.
He
isn't
like
an
elderly
statesman
who
tells
people
what
and
what
not
to
do.
That's
one
of
the
reasons
why
I
came
to
London
with
him
to
promote
Well
Done
Abba
last
year.
He
is
a
man
with
whom
you
want
to
desperately
spend
some
time.
Minissha
Lamba
is
at
her
best
ever
in
Well
Done
Abba.
She
is
climbing
the
ladder
of
success
slowly
but
surely.
Are
these
the
right
statements
to
make?
I
think
your
statements
are
very
accurate.
I've
worked
with
Minissha
Lamba
before
in
Honeymoon
Travels
Pvt
Ltd
but
this
one
is
ten
notches
higher.
It's
unfair
to
say
that
Minissha
Lamba
is
the
surprise
package
of
the
film
because
that's
where
you're
giving
a
back
handed
compliment.
I
truly
feel
that
every
actor
learns
and
grows
stronger
and
better
by
each
passing
film
and
Minissha
is
at
her
best
in
Well
Done
Abba.
She
is
on
the
same
run.
She
has
a
very
big
role
in
this
film.
It's
a
huge
one
actually
because
she
is
expected
to
deliver
a
performance
of
stature
and
she's
done
it.
Everybody
wants
a
piece
of
Boman
Irani.
Is
Mr.
Irani
getting
too
delicious?
How
can
you
expect
me
to
answer
a
question
like
this?
(Laughs).
I
can't
say,
"Yeah
yeah.
I
am
hot
right
now.
Come
and
have
me".
Come
on
man!
Yes,
you're
right
but
I
can't
answer
a
difficult
question
like
that.
Yes,
I
am
busy
like
a
bee
in
Bollywood
in
my
last
six
years.
It's
just
that
with
each
passing
year
I'd
like
to
believe
that
I've
grown
as
an
actor,
I'd
like
to
grow
my
respectability
and
I'd
like
to
be
challenged
a
little
more.
That's
what
I
want
and
that's
what
I
am
looking
for.
Sameer
Dattani,
the
underdog.
Is
he
not
a
one
trip
pony?
He
certainly
isn't
a
one
trip
pony.
No
one
is.
When
Mr.
Shyam
Benegal
cast
him,
he
was
a
learner.
Today,
he
has
passed
out
with
flying
colours.
He
is
a
young
man
and
started
out
slowly.
Well
Done
Abba
has
been
a
huge
learning
experience
for
Sameer.
He
has
come
out
wiser,
more
confident
and
has
learnt
the
craft
of
acting
even
better
after
doing
a
film
like
this.
He
is
doing
a
Karan
Johar
film
as
we
speak
and
that
only
shows
growth
for
an
actor.
If
directors
are
giving
him
time,
I'm
sure
we
should
too
give
him
time
to
prove
himself.
Well
Done
Abba
in
one
word
please.
There
can't
be
a
word
to
describe
a
film
like
this.
You're
asking
difficult
questions
here.
Don't
make
me
do
that.
I
can
speak
volumes
about
this
film
but
to
speak
in
a
nut
shell
about
this
film
rather
than
one
word,
Well
Done
Abba
is
the
best
days
of
my
life.