'I
am
a
very
secretive
person'...Alia
Bhatt
drops
a
hint
that
she
isn't
going
to
take
the
bait.
A
few
minutes
ago,
when
she
had
walked
in,
the
actress
looked
a
bit
upset
with
herself
for
forgetting
her
phone
in
another
room.
But
once
the
conversation
flowed
in,
Alia
at
her
lively
best,
indulged
in
some
heart-felt
talk
about
love,
relationships,
heartbreaks
and
of
course
Shahrukh
Khan.
Excerpts
from
the
interview...
Q.
How
dear
was
your
zindagi
while
shooting
with
Shahrukh
Khan
and
Gauri
Shinde?
A.
(laughs)
It
was
very
dear.
Obviously
for
me
this
film
was
a
very
fresh
experience.
Not
because
I
was
working
with
Shahrukh
Khan
and
Gauri
for
the
first
time.
But
because
of
the
subject.
Dear
Zindagi
is
very
different.
You
can't
compare
it
with
the
other
films
as
it
doesn't
fall
in
any
particular
genre.
That's
why
while
shooting
for
the
scenes
and
visiting
places,
I
felt
very
different.
Being
different
is
very
dear
to
me.
Q.
So
why
is
the
film
titled
Dear
Zindagi?
A.
It's
like
when
you
write
a
letter
how
do
you
begin?
You
address
as
Dear....So,
likewise
when
you
are
conversing
with
your
life,
you
will
write
Dear
Zindagi.
This
is
a
film
about
life.
So,
it's
like
a
letter
to
life.
Q.
How
much
do
you
relate
to
your
character
in
this
film?
A.
Too
much.
I
would
say
that
of
all
the
characters
that
I
have
played
so
far,
this
one
is
the
most
relatable.
I
related
with
this
character
the
most.
I
feel
that
you
too
would
relate
to
it
because
the
situations
are
quite
relatable.
Ya,
I
don't
relate
to
a
few
traits
like
my
character
in
the
film
is
too
impulsive
and
doesn't
mince
her
words.
I
won't
react
like
that
in
real
life.
Q.
Have
you
ever
said
'Just
Go
To
Hell
Dil'
in
real
life?
A.
Yes,
a
lot
of
times.
Of
course,
there
are
break-ups,
heartbreaks
and
you
fall
for
someone
who
doesn't
love
you
back...
Q.
How
do
you
deal
with
such
situations?
A.
There
isn't
any
funda
for
that.
I
think
time
heals
everything.
Q.
How
do
you
maintain
a
positive
attitude
in
life?
A.
It
is
very
difficult
to
be
positive
in
life
all
the
time.
But
what
I
try
to
do
is
not
have
any
negative
emotions.
I
feel
being
negative
is
a
waste
of
emotions
and
time.
Q.
Do
you
think
the
younger
generation
is
dealing
with
heartbreaks
very
casually
now-a-days?
A.
I
don't
feel
we
should
judge
someone.
People
are
doing
what
they
want
for
their
own
reasons.
I
just
feel
that
when
you
enter
a
relationship
then
you
should
know
what
are
you
doing
this
for.
Whether
you
want
to
do
some
time-pass
or
fall
in
love,
you
shouldn't
be
like
this
is
the
step
for
the
next
person.
Q.
What
is
the
biggest
take-away
from
Shahrukh
Khan?
A.
Inspite
of
being
in
the
industry
for
so
long,
he
doesn't
carry
any
baggage
of
being
Shahrukh
Khan.
He
will
go
out
of
his
way
to
make
you
feel
comfortable.
I
feel
that's
a
very
rare
quality
that
you
find
in
people
these
days
especially
for
a
superstar
like
him.
Q.
Do
you
have
a
life
coach
in
real
life?
A.
Not
really.
I
am
not
against
it.
I
am
a
very
secretive
person.
But
I
have
a
couple
of
friends
with
whom
I
discuss
my
work,
family
and
relationships.
Q.
Did
Shahrukh
treat
you
like
a
youngster
around?
A.
Not
at
all.
He
treats
everyone
equally.
Sometimes
when
I
used
to
goof
around
on
the
sets,
he
would
be
like
'Not
now
Alia,
later'.
(laughs)
Q.
Was
there
any
common
thing
between
you
and
him?
A.
Actually,
we
both
think
alike
a
lot.
We
are
very
similar
in
our
working
and
behaviour.
Our
gist
of
emotion
is
the
same
but
probably
the
way
that
we
carry
it
out
is
different.
Q.
Is
there
anything
annoying
about
him?
A.
I
wouldn't
say
annoying
but
I
would
feel
bad
when
he
wouldn't
eat.
During
the
shooting,
since
the
film
had
many
dialogues,
the
set
would
be
very
quiet.
Nobody
was
allowed
to
speak
as
the
scenes
were
heavy.
We
would
take
long
takes,
run
the
whole
scene.
Suddenly
in
the
middle,
I
would
hear
some
grumbling
sounds
coming
from
his
stomach.
So,
he
would
be
given
a
biscuit
or
something.
He
drinks
a
lot
of
coffee
as
well.
Even
I
used
to
have
that
but
at
least
I
would
eat
something
after
having
it.
But
he
won't.
I
used
to
feel
bad
about
that
and
I
still
tell
him
that
he
should
eat.
Q.
Is
he
strict
on
the
sets?
A.
Not
at
all.
He
is
very
cool
and
chilled-out.
It's
a
pleasure
to
work
with
him.
Q.
Do
you
think
that
Dear
Zindagi
will
be
the
hit
that
he
needs?
A.
He
is
Shah
Rukh
Khan!
He
is
doing
movies
because
he
is
passionate
about
it.
Unko
iski
zaroorat
nahi
hai,
chahat
hai.
Everybody
has
hits
and
flops
but
I
feel
he
is
just
looking
to
making
some
good,
interesting
and
different
work.
He
is
doing
all
types
of
films,
from
Fan,
Dear
Zindagi,
Raees,
The
Ring,
Aanand
L
Rai's
film.
It
is
very
interesting
that
he
is
broadening
his
ground
so
much.
Q.
How
was
it
working
with
Gauri
Shinde?
A.
I
liked
that
fact
that
she
is
so
frank
and
clear.
That's
why
our
sync
was
so
strong.
We
would
flow
with
the
scenes
very
beautifully.
Q.
Do
you
remember
meeting
SRK
as
a
kid?
A.
No,
I
don't.
But
I
remember
that
once
my
dad's
close
friends
had
visited
us
and
they
wanted
to
meet
him.
We
had
gone
to
his
place.
Shahrukh
and
my
father
have
a
very
easy
relationship.
Shah
Rukh
always
says
that
there's
one
person's
call
he
doesn't
avoid
and
that's
Mahesh
Bhatt.
I
was
11
or
12
years
old
then.
I
had
worn
an
ugly
top
and
had
messy
curly
hair.
He
had
kept
sandwiches
on
the
table
and
I
was
having
one.
I
was
so
much
in
awe.
Strangely
when
we
were
shooting,
my
dad
sent
that
photograph
to
me.
I
showed
it
to
Shahrukh
and
he
couldn't
believe
it.
That
was
quite
sweet.
Other
than
that,
I
don't
remember
meeting
him.
Q.
At
this
phase
of
your
life
do
you
feel
the
pressure
of
carrying
a
film
on
your
shoulders?
A.
I
don't
feel
it's
only
on
my
shoulder.
It
is
more
on
the
director's
shoulder.
We
are
actors,
we
do
our
work.
Obviously,
I
feel
very
close
to
this
film
and
am
very
passionate
about
it.
I
feel
that
if
I
am
doing
something
then
I
should
be
good
at
that,
whatever
age
I
am
at.
I
feel
that
way
about
all
my
films.
Q.
At
your
age,
youngsters
are
still
figuring
out
what
to
do
whereas
you
are
quite
clear
about
what
you
want
to
do
in
life
and
are
focussed...
A.
Everybody's
journey
is
different.
However,
I
would
like
to
tell
all
youngsters
that
be
passionate
about
whatever
you
do,
never
give
on
your
dreams,
even
if
the
dream
is
small,
just
be
sure
about
it.
Q.
Alia,
would
you
be
disappointed
if
you
don't
win
an
award
for
Udta
Punjab?
A.
The
best
man
will
win.
It's
not
like
I
wouldn't
be
upset.
I
would
wonder
why
not.
But
I'll
move
on.
Sonam
(Kapoor)
has
done
a
great
job
in
Neerja
and
she
should
be
awarded
for
it.
If
at
the
end
of
the
year
people
feel
she
was
the
best,
then
yes,
she
was
the
best.
Q.
After
Udta
Punjab,
your
next
is
Dear
Zindagi.
Is
it
a
conscious
move
to
balance
the
kind
of
roles
you
are
going
for?
A.
Nothing
is
deliberate.
I
choose
different
roles
because
that's
the
way
I
look
at
things.
I
like
being
different.
I
get
bored
of
doing
the
same
thing
again
and
again.
Dear
Zindagi
is
a
light-hearted
film.
It
is
a
happy
film
but
to
pull
it
off
wasn't
easy.
To
pull
off
the
journey
of
a
girl
very
convincingly
was
difficult.
Q.
Your
father
Mahesh
Bhatt
had
mentioned
in
an
interview
that
you
are
already
a
star
and
he
wouldn't
want
to
cast
a
star
in
his
film.
A.
Rubbish!
He
is
talking
rubbish!
It
will
happen.
I
don't
think
he
won't
cast
me
because
of
that.
There
are
talks
going
on
about
certain
projects
but
nothing
specifically.
However,
I
would
like
to
do
an
intense
love
story
with
him.
Q.
There
were
reports
of
you
doing
Aashiqui
3...
A.
Yes,
we
did
meet
to
do
Aashiqui;
the
film
has
come
to
me.
The
script
is
still
in
the
process
of
writing,
so
I
am
waiting.
I
would
like
to
do
the
third
part
of
Aashiqui.
Q.
He
also
said
that
you
are
a
better
actress
than
Pooja
Bhatt.
How
do
you
take
that
compliment?
A.
Maybe.
I
wouldn't
say
I
am
a
better
actor
but
I
feel
she
possesses
other
qualities
that
I
don't.
She
has
a
great
artistic
approach.
She
is
a
producer,
which
is
a
very
difficult
job.
She
has
been
a
director
which
I
will
never
be
able
to
be.
Q.
Is
there
anything
that
you
would
like
to
change
about
yourself?
A.
I
get
hyper
at
times;
I
would
like
to
change
that.
I
get
angry
very
fast.
I
say
things
and
then
I
want
to
take
them
back.
I
want
to
change
that
too.
Q.
Anything
that
you
have
done
in
your
teenage
years
and
your
parents
don't
know?
A.
My
parents
know
everything.
Honestly,
I
haven't
hidden
anything
from
them.
Actually,
I
am
very
bad
at
lying.
People
say
that
I
am
a
good
actress
but
I
think
I
am
the
worst
person
when
it
comes
to
lying.
I
lie
so
creatively
that
people
figure
out
I
am
lying.
But
now,
I
lie
to
my
mom
sometimes.
If
I
have
a
late-night
pack-up
and
want
to
go
to
the
gym
in
the
morning,
she
gets
angry.
So,
I
tell
her
I
am
going
for
a
meeting
but
go
to
the
gym
instead.
Q.
How
was
it
sharing
screen
space
with
Kunal
Kapoor?
A.
It
was
amazing.
He
is
a
super
actor.
I
know
many
people
who
have
a
big
crush
on
him,
they
find
him
very
sexy.
Once,
we
were
shooting
in
Singapore
and
it
was
pouring
heavily.
So,
we
started
playing
antakshari
in
a
corner
because
if
Gauri
would
have
heard
of
it,
she
would
have
said,
'You
guys
are
playing
antakshari
here
and
there
my
set
is
getting
wet!'
(laughs)
Q.
SRK
is
known
as
King
of
Romance
but
you
don't
get
to
do
any
of
that
in
this
film.
Do
you
miss
romancing
him
onscreen?
A.
No.
I
don't
think
there
was
scope
for
it
in
this
film.
Also,
the
way
people
look
at
things
like
the
age
difference,
the
typical
romance
wouldn't
fit
in
for
them.
I
always
say
that
no
relationship
exists
without
love.
Q.
How
is
Badrinath
Ki
Dulhania
shaping
up?
A.
It
is
shaping
up
coolly,
differently.
We
were
in
Singapore
for
a
very
long
time,
so
Badrinath
has
gone
international
now.
(laughs)
We
shot
in
Jhansi
before
and
then
in
Singapore,
so
you
will
get
to
see
both
sides.
It's
a
very
heartland
romance.
Q.
You
and
Varun
Dhawan
began
your
film
journey
together.
How
do
you
see
his
career
shaping
up?
A.
Varun
is
doing
great
as
an
actor.
He
is
having
100
per
cent
trajectory
rate.
His
films
have
been
hit.
He
is
good
in
the
comedy
space.
We
all
are
proud
of
each
other.
Q.
What's
your
definition
of
a
gutsy
woman?
A.
She
is
the
one
who
speaks
her
mind,
is
clear,
focused
and
has
the
guts
to
say
what
she
wants
and
stand
by.
For
me
Pooja
Bhatt
is
such
a
woman.
Q.
Have
you
been
through
a
heartbreak?
A.
Yes,
I
have
had
heartbreaks
and
when
it
happened
I
have
gone
for
holidays.
But
recently,
there
has
been
no
heartbreak.
I
am
really
happy.
Q.
There
were
reports
of
you
doing
Zoya
Akhtar's
Gully
Boy
opposite
Ranveer
Singh.
A.
I
would
love
to
be
in
any
gully
with
Ranveer
Singh
and
Zoya.
If
that
is
happening,
I
would
be
very
happy.
Q.
When
do
you
start
shooting
for
Ayan
Mukerji's
Dragon
with
Ranbir
Kapoor?
A.
After
Ranbir
finishes
Raju
Hirani's
biopic
on
Sanjay
Dutt.
Q.
Tiger
Shroff
is
a
part
of
Student
Of
The
Year
2.
What
do
you
think
about
it?
A.
It's
great
and
who
better
than
Tiger!
He
is
a
very
unique
star
and
can
take
the
franchise
forward.
Q.
Gauri
in
a
recent
interview
said
that
don't
think
of
Dear
Zindagi
as
a
film,
instead
think
of
it
as
an
experience.
So,
has
your
take
on
love
and
relationships
changed
post
doing
the
film?
A.
Not
changed.
I
would
say,
maybe
added
a
few
more
bits.