Singer
FKA
Twigs
recently
discussed
details
about
the
alleged
abusive
relationship
she
had
with
actor
Shia
LaBeouf.
FKA
went
on
to
describe
him
as
'an
inherently
abusive'
person
and
alleged
that
he
subjected
her
to
physical,
emotional
and
verbal
violence.
Twigs
told
Elle
magazine,
"It's
a
miracle
I
came
out
alive."
She
went
on
to
explain
the
"calculated,
systematic,
tricky,
and
maze-like"
tactics,
describing
them
as
love
bombing
her,
gaslighting
her,
then
using
social
isolation
and
sleep
deprivation
to
control
her.
She
added,
"If
you
put
a
frog
in
a
boiling
pot
of
water,
that
frog
is
going
to
jump
out
straight
away.
Whereas
if
you
put
a
frog
in
cool
water
and
heat
it
up
slowly,
that
frog
is
going
to
boil
to
death.
That
was
my
experience
being
with
[LaBeouf]."
Talking
about
how
she
survived,
she
added,
"I
think
it's
luck.
I
honestly
wish
I
could
say
that
I
found
some
strength
and
I
saw
this
light.
I
wish
I
could
say,
'[It
is]
a
testament
to
my
strong
character,'
or
'It's
the
way
my
mother
raised
me.'
It's
none
of
that.
It's
pure
luck
that
I'm
not
in
that
situation
anymore."
She
shared
that
LaBeouf
would
display
overt
affection
to
win
her
back
after
fights.
Recalling
an
incident
she
revealed
that
he
had
sent
her
over
10
and
20
bunches
of
flowers
a
day
for
10
days.
"It
was
a
bit
too
much.
It
felt
uncomfortable.
I
look
back
now,
and
it
feels
like
really
aggressive
love."
He
allegedly
had
set
a
quota
for
the
number
of
kisses
she
was
supposed
to
give
him
every
day.
And
would
resort
to
abusing
her
for
hours
if
she
fell
short.
He
would
wake
her
up
at
odd
hours
in
the
night
and
make
her
watch
'gruesome'
true
crime
documentaries
before
bed,
and
insist
that
she
sleep
naked.
Talking
about
living
with
him,
she
said
that
felt
very
intimidated.
"He
had
a
gun
by
the
side
of
the
bed
and
was
erratic.
[I
never
knew
what
would]
make
him
angry
with
me," she
said.
While
reacting
to
the
allegation
in
December
2020,
LaBeouf
had
said,
"I'm
not
in
any
position
to
tell
anyone
how
my
behaviour
made
them
feel.
I
have
no
excuses
for
my
alcoholism
or
aggression,
only
rationalizations.
I
have
been
abusive
to
myself
and
everyone
around
me
for
years.
I
have
a
history
of
hurting
the
people
closest
to
me.
I'm
ashamed
of
that
history
and
am
sorry
to
those
I
hurt.
There
is
nothing
else
I
can
really
say."