Veteran
actress
Neelima
Azeem
who
prefers
to
keep
her
personal
life
under
wraps,
recently
opened
up
about
her
broken
marriages
with
Pankaj
Kapur
and
Rajesh
Khattar
in
an
interview
with
an
entertainment
portal.
Neelima
recalled
her
first
marriage
with
Pankaj
Kapur
with
whom
she
has
a
son,
actor
Shahid
Kapoor
and
said
that
she
was
married
to
her
best
friend
but
wasn't
aware
that
one
could
experience
such
a
fall
in
life.
Speaking
about
how
her
separation
from
Pankaj
Kapur
affected
her,
the
actress
told
Bollywood
Bubble,
"It
was
the
first
time
when
I
actually
experienced
grief,
sorrow,
rejection,
anxiety,
pain
and
fear
of
the
unknown.
And
a
whole
lot
of
insecurity.
And
also
a
sense
of
feeling
claustrophobic
that
I
have
to
stay
with
my
parents
now
and
raise
the
child
on
my
own
and
how
I
am
going
to
be
moving
towards
being
the
independent
girl
that
I
always
wanted
to
be
and
in
many
ways
was."
Neelima
said
that
it
took
her
a
year
and
a
half
to
put
herself
together
and
added,
"I
don't
see
it
as
a
terrible
thing
that
happened
to
me
in
life.
I
just
simply
think
that
I
needed
that
bump.
We
all
must
understand
that
we
are
not
extraordinary
or
entitled,
we
are
simply
human
beings
that
can
be
rejected.
The
Sadak
actress
said
that
before
her
divorce
from
Pankaj
Kapur,
she
had
never
faced
rejection
in
her
life.
And
so,
the
failure
of
her
first
marriage
hit
her
hard.
"Because
you
know
I
was
in
my
own
opinion
God's
favourite
child.
Because
I
got
everything
so
beautifully,
at
the
age
of
15
I
debuted
as
a
Kathak
exponent
and
there
was
no
looking
back.
Then,
I
became
the
highest
in
demand
dancer
and
everything
was
so
wonderful.
Then
I
had
this
wonderful
friend
who
I
got
married
to.
Everything
was
just
beautiful.
My
parents
were
wonderful.
I
had
a
great
crowd
around
me.
Toh
mujhe
yeh
pata
hi
nahi
tha
ki
zindagi
mein
aisa
bhi
hota
hai
jismein
paun
fisal
jaye
aur
aap
gir
jaayein.
Aur
rejection
ka
toh
koi
sawaal
hi
nahi
hai
because
everybody
used
to
love
me
and
follow
me
around
(I
was
not
aware
that
one
can
slip
in
life
and
fall
flat.
There
was
no
question
of
rejection
because
everybody
used
to
love
me
and
follow
me
around," Neelima
told
Bollywood
Bubble.
Post
her
split
with
Pankaj
Kapur,
Neelima
Azeem
tied
the
knot
with
actor
Rajesh
Khattar
and
welcomed
their
son,
Ishaan
Khatter
in
1995.
However,
the
couple
soon
got
divorced.
Talking
about
her
second
marriage,
Neelima
shared,
"The
second
marriage
would
have
lasted
if
certain
things
didn't
happen
which
were
difficult
to
encounter...
It
was
difficult,
it
was
an
impossible
feat.
I
think
it
would
have
worked
out
if
there
was
more
control
and
more
logic
and
sense
it
in.
But
it
went,
it
flew
out.
And
it
happens
in
Bombay
with
all
the
struggle
and
with
all
the
pressures,
sometimes
people
succumb
to
it.
But
I
have
the
ability
to
get
up
and
start
walking
again,
and
I
have
these
lovely
boys
in
my
life,
my
sons
(Shahid
and
Ishaan),
they
were
a
great
inspiration
for
me
and
a
source
of
so
much
happiness
and
encouragement."
In
the
same
interview,
the
Sooryavansham
actress
also
opened
up
about
how
her
failed
marriages
must
have
impacted
her
sons,
Shahid
and
Ishaan.
She
said,
"I
sometimes
even
would
like
to
say
that
maybe
children
who
are
watching
us
taking
certain
choices
and
then
having
those
mighty
falls
might
decide
to
be
more
stable
than
us.
So
I'd
like
to
give
that
credit
to
the
kids
and
not
hog
all
the
limelight
and
say
'Oh,
I
was
so
wonderful
that
they
learnt
all
the
wonderful
things
they
saw
in
me.'
They
saw
some
flaws
also
and
they
said,
'okay,
this
is
not
what
I
am
going
inculcate
this',
because
the
DNA
is
the
same,
we
are
going
to
be
very
consciously
keeping
a
part
of
us
out.
So,
they
must
have
even
learnt
from
my
pitfalls
and
my
impulsive
or
wrong,
silly
choices
or
whatever
you
may
say.
In
a
complete
sense,
in
a
larger
perspective,
I
have
been
there
for
them."